What’s Really Been Shifting in My Life Lately (aka the truth behind the glow-up)

If you've been watching my journey lately, you’ve probably felt something shift. The pace. The power. The clarity. The softness.It’s all real.

But let me tell you what’s underneath it. Because it’s not just strategy. It’s not just a new studio or another offering.

It’s a whole new level of self-respect.

I’ve stopped trying to make myself palatable for people who only loved the version of me they could benefit from. I’ve stopped abandoning my needs for the sake of being “understood.” I’ve stopped negotiating my boundaries just to maintain harmony with people who never truly saw me.

And that, right there, is what changed everything.

I finally feel supported—for real this time.

Not just by a team. Not just by aligned collaborators. But in my personal life.

This is the first time in my life I can honestly say: I feel loved down. Seen. Covered. Held. And not because I’m doing everything right, or playing some role. But because I’ve made peace with who I am—outside of my output.

What’s shifted?

Honestly? I got radically honest with myself.

- I stopped over explaining to people who already made up their minds.

- I started honoring the ways I’ve always known what I needed—but didn’t feel “allowed” to claim it.

- I left dynamics that felt almost aligned… and made room for what’s fully aligned.

And now, I’m experiencing a level of peace, partnership, and power I used to pray for.

But it didn’t come from chasing clarity. It came from getting still enough to listen to what I already knew.

The truth is…

You can have all the strategy in the world. You can have the launch plan, the offer stack, the content calendar…But if your personal life feels like chaos, you’ll stay in survival.

This glow-up isn’t just about business. It’s about becoming the kind of woman who no longer performs to be loved. It’s about rooting into a level of integrity so deep, the right people can’t help but rise to meet it.

So if you’re watching from the outside thinking,

“Damn, something’s different about her lately…”You’re right.

I’m not building from burnout anymore.I’m not staying quiet to keep the peace. And I’m not rushing what’s meant to unfold.

I’m moving different. Because I’m being different.

And I want that kind of peace for you, too.

With love and truth,

Destiny Muse